Being pregnant is a very wonderful thing that we could ever experience. Especially, if the pregnancy is of our very first baby (and after the first trimester with all the nausea, dizziness, yucky feeling are gone). The feeling was oh so gooood with all the little kicks and hiccups, wasn’t it? 
But, not all of us are blessed with easy path to pregnancy. Some women are so lucky that they got pregnant a month after their wedding. Malays call this as bunting pelamin.
And, it seems that unwed girls who don’t want a baby are so easy to get pregnant. But, those who are married and wanting a baby so desperately never get the chance.
I truly deeply know the feeling. Angry. Helpless. Frustrated. Extremely sad. 
And, we couldn’t help but think that life is unfair. Why those people get to enjoy the blessing of getting so many children but we could only watch in envy? Why let us feel strong jealousy towards those women with bulging tummies (pregnant)?
STOP!
Don’t let the feeling stop you from trying. Again and again. Because, once you stop trying – you’ll never get a chance to get pregnant anymore.
There are MANY ways that you can do to get pregnant.
There are MANY things you should know and do before you can get pregnant.
You will never know what is wrong until you do certain things. And, you will never know when you’ll get lucky until you try them all. 
From now on, I will share whatever I know and experience about how to get pregnant. If you have been married for more than 2 year but still do not pregnant, it’s time to start GETTING HELP and SUPPORT.
There’s nothing to be ashamed of if you’re still not pregnant. You need to get up and start doing something. Read, find ways and get moral support now!
I hope whatever I will be sharing could help or at least shed some light on this increasing infertily problems for Malaysian women. I have created a special category for this under ‘Little Guide – Making Babies’.
So, keep on going. There is always a light at the end of a tunnel. Cheers! 
I get pregnant easily, sampai my husband pernah bagitau kawan dia “Along ni, aku pandang je pun, dah bleh pregnant”
. Quite a number of my friends however are having problems conceiving, sorang tu tengah buat treatment IVF. Seksa gak tengok..makes me more feel more blessed when I look at my girls everyday.
.-= Along´s last blog post..Ramadhan and the Kids =-.
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 12:44 pm
along, waaaaah… pandang aje terus pregnant…muah..ha.. sangat la best! sama la macam my sisters… semua easy lekat.. me je yang payah sikit
emm… IVF.. prosedur dia bit complicated than IUI.. plus sangat la mahal.. tapi chance nak dapat twins more than 50%
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Salam Little Mama,..
Saya ada kawan yang dah try mcm2 treatment, tapi still tak berjaya. Kesian sgt tgk dia, i know she will be a good mother, cuma belum rezeki aje lagi. Hopefully I can share any suggestion from your readers to her.
.-= unlisted_one´s last blog post..H1N1 Awareness – for babies =-.
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 1:20 pm
unlisted, mesti dia rasa sangat down.. hope u can give her moral support… sangat down tau susah nak pregnant ni.. especially kalo in-laws/family/kengkawan asyik duk tanya.. bila nak dapat anak?
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Oh K Ros, we are in the same boat..me also ada cerita2 kat my blog…tapi tak abih2 lagi sambungan nya..marila beramai2 share kat sini. I know the feelings mcm K Ros ckp tu..
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 1:24 pm
ida.z, actually memang sangat ramai yang susah nak pregnant ni… masa i pegi LPPKN in 2007 tu.. the queue was very long.. cuma ramai jugak yang segan dan tak tau nak buat apa selain dari menunggu dan blaming themselves (stress camtu lagi susah nak dapat)
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Salam…getting pregnant are the most beautiful feel that i had..
.-= miela77´s last blog post..UK Anti-Virus Formula Bio-Tech Herbal – Sesuai Utk Mencegah H1N1…Sticky Mode =-.
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 1:27 pm
miela, it was indeed a very beautiful feeling… rasa nak lagi..he..he
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huda after married terus pregnant..kire bunting plamin la.. so happy that time, and for 2nd baby we planning to have 2 years gap. so now is the right time for me to conceive again sbb amirul pn 18 months.. tp unfortunately, after 3/4 attempt, still lagi tak conceive.. sedih gak la.. huda pn nk sharing few info on pregnancy. click below link :
http://kambingbujang.blogspot.com/2009/08/what-nutritional-guidelines-should-i.html
http://kambingbujang.blogspot.com/2009/08/give-yourself-chance-pregnancy-phobia.html
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 1:29 pm
huda, i pun ada kawan yang after 1st child, sangat susah nak melekat lagi.. don’t know what the problems, perhaps hormon changes kot (but me anak first susah, tapi second senang pulak lekat cuma takde rezeki gugur)
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I am trying for 2nd 1… duh… bukan senang ohhhhh….
.-= cathj´s last blog post..That Night Flying Off To Perth.. =-.
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 1:30 pm
cathj, usaha lagi! go go…he..he
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Ros, kawe pun lebih kurang Along jugak…sampai saing2 pakat tak boleh keep track berapa orang anak2 kawe… tapi, bila terjumpa dengan kawan2 yang tak serupa kawe…rasa serba salah tu ada aje… so, better jgn tya apa2 soklan yg menuju ke arah nk menanya bila nak beranak?? itu amat menyakitkan buat mereka…. bersyukurlah siapa yang diberi rezeki melalui anaknya
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 1:32 pm
sitisifir, memang sangat menyakitkan soalan camtu buat mereka2 yang susah nak melekat anak ni… terutama kalau mertua yang tanya… rasa hati macam terhempas ke batu gitu
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i got pregnant sebab accident. mengharapkan medical contraceptive, tp di belotnye juga..hehehhe..but then again dah rezeki, kan? mmg nampak sgt tuhan nak bagi tu. so i guess, for moms out there yg trying..don’t stress too much.. kalau takdir ada rezeki ada la tu.
as for me, mmg getting pregnant was some what a horror at first. tp as the little one grows bigger in ur belly, the love grows too.
.-= mamamiya´s last blog post..Happy Independence Day Malaysia =-.
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 1:34 pm
mamamiya, accident? me pun accident gak masa pregnant kali ke 2 tu… memang tak sangka boleh senang lekat sebab nak dapatkan izzah bukan main susah… sebab tu tak merancang pun.. cuma takde rezeki miscarried je.
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itula..saye pun bersyukur sgt mmdgkn agak cpt mengandung lepas kawin dl..n skang dah termengandung lg..n hope kekawan yg blom lg tu,insya allah ada la tu nnti..allah tak kan uji kalau that person tak mampu harungi,kan?saye pun, ade halangan n rintangan lain yg kene tempuh..huhu
.-= Diyana´s last blog post..Damia @ studio =-.
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 1:36 pm
diyana, ye betul.. insyaallah ada.. cuma kena tabah dan terus berusaha je… semua orang ada halangan masing2.. so be strong!
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sy pun faham perasaan org yg lambat dapat anak ni.sy dah kawin setahun 2 bulan n masih belum ada rezeki untuk mengandung.sekarang ni dah stat makan clomid atas nasihat doctor.baru je period smlm,so kena cuba utk bulan ke2 plak..semoga ada rezeki untuk kami.amin..
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 1:41 pm
nadya, takpe.. usaha dan tawakkal pada Allah… insyaallah ada rezeki… amin!
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hmm, harus ku suggest kat seseorang tentang blog ni… supaya dia rasa dia tak keseorangan…
.-= sya´s last blog post..selamat hari merdeka =-.
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 9:19 pm
sya, kongsi ye
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Salam..
Alhamdulillah, setakat ni Allah permudahkan jalan buat saya.
Sebab terlalu senang, saya kena control dgn pil dan segala.
Saya terlalu subur..heheh..
Mmg sedih bila dgr ada teman2 yg masih belum punya anak. Sepupu saya pun ada sorang. Kami kawen tahun yg sama. Tapi smp skrg belum juga nampak. Mmg dia ada mslh dgn rahim tapi saya masih tak putus bagi semangat kat sepupu saya.
Saya selalu bgtau teman2, lepas kawen 3 bulan cuba pegi check. I know some doctor will ask them to come back after 1 year. But yet, tak salah pun kan kalau nak check. At least kalau tau ada masalah, awal2 kita dh tau nak boleh cari penyelesaiannya.
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 9:23 pm
yus, terlalu subur pun ada cabaran dia jugak kan.. nak kena kawal segala..
pasal pegi check tu.. sangat setuju.. tapi ramai yang tak tau apa nak buat/mana nak pegi kalau still tak dapat anak… i dulu pun tau pasal LPPKN dari kawan yang tengah buat treatment kat situ… kalau tak sampai sekarang duk menunggu la
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saya pun dlm mode of trying hard for 2nd one..hehehe..dah nak 4 bulan try dah ni..blum rezeki…
anak 1st, alhamdulillah..after 2 months dah lekat walaupun kami PJJ awal tu..sampai org pun kata..dok jauh pun jadi… itu namanya rezeki..
.-= Dayah´s last blog post..Berapa jam anda bekerja sehari? =-.
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littlemama Reply:
September 1st, 2009 at 9:28 pm
dayah, kena full mode mencuba tu… insyallah ada la tu nanti…amin!
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i skg pun tgh b’usaha keras nk dptkn ADIKs utk Eiymann yg dh 2 thn 4 bln++ skg nie..i dh jmpe doc..doc ckp sbb i BF so susah skit nk conceive..doc suh i stop BF klu nk preggie..huhu..tu yg sedey.. doc. bg i clomid ngn folid acid..so far i still BF..i percaya pd rezeki Allah..
i blh paham perasaan org yg dh kawen lame tp x dpt ank lg..at least i dh dpt sorang..i pun mmg x brani nk tnye org dgn soklan “dh ade isi ke?”..”bile nk ade anak?”..mmg i x brani sey.. coz i taw klu dorang dh ade isi mesti dorang bgtau kan..soklan2 mcm ni lar actually buat dorang lg down..
.-= e-caR NazRin aka ibuEiymann´s last blog post..Contest Pasangan Seiras.. =-.
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littlemama Reply:
September 2nd, 2009 at 6:57 pm
e-car, setahu i kalau anak dah 2 tahun ke atas, BF tak kan stop u from being pregnant again.. ada ke pulak doktor tu pegi suruh stop BF…
continue BF + usaha… insyaallah ada rezeki nanti…amin!
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